Reflection on Embroidered Pillows

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Women were always treated poorly in ancient times. They did not have the same opportunities as men and were assigned roles because of their gender. Women, for instance, are expected to learn how to do various household chores. Whether they complete their education makes no difference because they are expected to marry, bear a child, and manage a home (Cerrato & Cifre, 2018). Therefore, women are regarded as inferior. In addition, Chow’s remark about the short story Embroidered Pillows (Ling, 1981) shows that a hardworking woman whose products may be excellent still cannot escape her fate. It means that no matter how much effort a woman puts in, it will always be in vain because society places little value on a woman’s work. However, there are several gender equality movements in the modern era. Furthermore, more people are becoming aware that women can do what men can do and that women, too, are capable of great things. Thus, it is argued in this paper that if a woman learns to appreciate herself and her work, no effort will be wasted.
Chow (1988) claims that Chinese women give up their desires in exchange for a social position. Women do not mind making sacrifices as long as they get their social status, where they can earn respect and power. The main character in the story, Embroidered Pillows, exemplifies this statement. She is a hardworking woman who gives up her time, effort, and personal desires to produce high-quality cushions. People who work with her admire her for her craftsmanship and the colorful and appealing cushions she creates. Once, she makes a cushion that will be offered and delivered to powerful men who could be potential lovers or people who could bring the embroiderer wealth and fame. She makes the cushion while showing her full passion and dedication. She works on it all the time, even when the weather is terrible or she is exhausted. Unfortunately, the embroiderer discovered that her works had been turned into scraps after the people overused her precious cushions. The embroiderer’s dream of being noticed by people in positions of power and admired by the general public faded after she realized that all her efforts had been in vain (Ling, 1981). It is revealed in the story that despite the woman's efforts, she does not deserve any recognition for her beautiful creations because of her gender. She lives in a society where only men have the power to rule, and women have no rights to be recognized for their efforts.
Contrary to Chow’s belief, if a woman puts in much effort, she does not need to be recognized by anyone but herself, and her actions will not be in vain. A woman aware of her weaknesses and strengths is more likely to comprehend and value everything she does. A woman who admits to herself that she has flaws can improve. She takes the necessary steps to improve these flaws and turn them into strengths. Furthermore, a woman who und...